Top 2 Rules
Rigid rules without wise policing makes for plenty of court cases. So work on your judging at the same time as consistent policing. It is a craft. Builds overtime. Here are my top 2 rules according to my dad:
Don’t lie to him.
Don’t play with fire.
I remember them clearly because my dad never spanked me except when I lied and when I played with fire.
Top 2 rules in my classroom:
Don’t give me attitude/rudeness.
Don’t bully/tease/gossip/put down others.
It is up to you what you’re passionate about. Make sure you stand by 2 top rules that you reserve your really angry reaction for and everything else is negotiable.